Resilience by the Roadside: How a Boli Seller Raised Her Children Against All Odds

Every day, thousands of people pass by roadside vendors without knowing the powerful stories behind their struggles. One of such stories is that of a woman who sells boli—roasted plantain—by the roadside. To many, she is just another vendor. But behind her small stand is a life of sacrifice, courage, and unbreakable resilience.

Years ago, her life took an unexpected turn when her husband left her and her children. Suddenly, she became both mother and father, provider and protector. With no stable job and no formal support, she turned to what she could do with her hands—selling boli by the roadside.

Under the scorching sun and beside burning charcoal, she worked tirelessly every day. From morning till night, she roasted plantain, greeted customers with a smile, and saved every possible naira. Her goal was clear: to train her children through school and give them a better future than she had.

However, the journey was not without pain. Constant exposure to smoke and heat began to affect her eyes. Over time, her vision weakened, and she was forced to start wearing glasses. Yet, even this did not stop her. While others might have given up, she chose to press on.

Despite abandonment, health challenges, and financial hardship, she never lost hope. She remained focused on her purpose—her children. Through her sacrifices, they continued their education, growing in confidence and opportunity. Her roadside stand became more than a business; it became a classroom, a shelter, and a symbol of determination.

Today, her story stands as a powerful reminder that heroes do not always wear uniforms or occupy big offices. Some stand by the roadside, turning hardship into hope. Some fight silently, every day, so their children can rise.

Her life teaches us that resilience is not the absence of struggle, but the decision to keep moving forward despite it. She represents millions of African women whose strength often goes unnoticed but whose impact is immeasurable.

At Talk Africa NG, we believe in telling these stories—stories that inspire, empower, and remind us of our shared humanity. This woman’s journey is proof that with courage, faith, and persistence, even the smallest beginnings can produce extraordinary outcomes.

Her story is not just about selling boli.

It is about selling sacrifice, courage, and hope—one day at a time.

credit: John Emmanuel Fagbemi